I have been married for 15 years now.  Throughout our marriage I   have been asked by newly weds and seasoned couples, what is the secret to staying together and being happy?  Well here it is!
A heart is made up of two equal parts if you split it down the middle.  Meaning, it is imperative that you select your spouse based on them showing love for you as you do for them and that you both demonstrate the willingness to grow in love together while realizing that your individualized definition of what love is may be different. It is very important to remember that in order for you to be loved the way you want to be loved you must tell your spouse, encourage and show them.  That is why clear and open communication is so important.